Evidently, things with me and ghosted-after-the-tenth-date-guy didn’t work out. Safe to say, I am irritated and disappointed. No, I am not sad or upset, because I never allowed myself to get too invested in him, but it just baffles me how a guy (25 years old) would do a fuckboi ghost after TEN DATES. LikeContinue reading “Digging my Own Grave”
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Time for that Temp Check
When do I need to stop fooling myself by saying I don’t need someone that gives me loads of attention?? Let me give you a backstory: So for about a month and a half, I have been seeing the same guy. Yes, you read that right. Same guy. At this point, we have probably seenContinue reading “Time for that Temp Check”
4th date in…?!
So last night I had my fourth date with someone. Yes, you read that right – fourth. Better yet- I waited until the third date to sleep with him AND he texted me after and continued to try and make subsequent plans! Not ghosted after sex?? Refreshing! While you may be thinking, “Wow, isn’t thisContinue reading “4th date in…?!”
2020 and Taking Time for MYSELF
Despite the seemingly universal opinion that 2020 has been a shit show, it has proven to be my year of optimal growth. Considering this is a dating blog, I won’t get into too many off-topic details, but I feel that my growth is grounded to me being more self-aware; in turn, enabling me to haveContinue reading “2020 and Taking Time for MYSELF”
Curating That Perfect Profile
I have seen enough profiles, listened to enough relationship podcasts, and discussed with enough of my male friends to know what goes into curating the perfect profile. We don’t want one that looks like we spent hours designing it (even if we did, which is an issue we should discuss with a professional); we don’tContinue reading “Curating That Perfect Profile”
GHOSTING
Getting ghosted and being ghosted are both double edged-swords. Before I get ahead of myself, I must note that I am looking at this from the perspective of being ghosted/getting ghosted after a few dates or even prior to meeting the guy in person. I am not referring to having a few back-and-forth messages withContinue reading “GHOSTING”
BODY COUNT
Body count. We all have one (I hope), but not all of us are proud of our list. I sure am not. As I wrote down my list, I realized how many of my encounters with these guys… Were very sexually unfulfilling Were with guys who wouldn’t even acknowledge me publicly after the matter WereContinue reading “BODY COUNT”
TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THE FREE DIRTY ‘TINIS
Lately, I’ve been a “yes” girl, for better or for worse. In this story, it will become evident that I have not been practicing social distancing seriously, which I realize is not very responsible of me, but I promise my dry nostrils get regularly swabbed. Anyways, the other weekend, my friends and I were atContinue reading “TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THE FREE DIRTY ‘TINIS”
THE bad date
Previously, I stated that there is no such thing as a bad date. Well guys, I changed my mind because I just had the WORST DATE EVER. In the past I thought I had “bad” dates where I simply was not into the guy and I knew that I didn’t want to see him again.Continue reading “THE bad date”
Sunday Night Swiping
You spent your Sunday hungover with no one to cuddle you, binge watch TV with you, or to enable your unhealthy day of feeling like a bottomless pit. You’re feeling lonely and sensing the impending cuffing season. Even though you warded off dating, since you’ve only had mediocre experiences, you hope that this time willContinue reading “Sunday Night Swiping”
